About Me
My name is Tapas Dwivedi, and I am a Relationship Counsellor based in Berlin, Germany. I support couples and individuals in growing through their conflicts and developing stronger, happier relationships.
My journey as a Relationship Coach began after the end of an important relationship in my own life. As I reflected on the pain of that experience, I saw the part that I played in the conflicts and the disconnection. The more responsibility I took for my own defensiveness and reactivity, the more my anger and blame faded away. As I changed, my relationships with my family, friends and my partner became more loving, stronger and intimate. This experience changed my life and inspired my to help others who want to grow and transform their relationships.
Before moving into this work, I spent 16 years in Tech and Product Management, where I helped people from different teams understand each other, resolve conflicts, and collaborate with care and respect.
I believe that all relationships are opportunities for immense personal growth. They challenges us, humble us and teach us about honesty, patience, compassion and connectedness.
They can also be incredibly hard to navigate, perhaps the hardest challenges thrown to us in our lives. And getting help for such a hard challenge is a great gift we can give ourselves.
I am originally from India and I live in Berlin, Germany with my partner and a little cat.
I speak Hindi, English, and German.

Timeline
2026
2025-2026
Certification in Relational Life Coaching & Couples Therapy
Relational Life Institute (USA)
2025
Certification in Gottman's Method for Couples Therapy - Level 1
The Gottmans Institute (USA)
2022-2024
Entrepreneur (Berlin, Germany)
Co-Founder of Closer, a set of cards to help people build intimacy through meaningful conversations.
2008-2024
Germany, India
16 years in tech & startups. As a product manager, I helped teams and stakeholders navigate interpersonal conflicts and collaborate effectively.


