Relationship Coaching for Couples & Individuals
Most conflicts that we have with our partner are over an unmet need.
Need to be understood, need to be treated better, need for more intimacy etc.
What we need makes total sense—but we either end up in spiralling conflicts or grow apart. We don't get what we want, and often we end up hurting each other.
If you are feeling alone or exhausted in your relationship, you are not alone. Two people who deeply love and care about each other, often get caught in patterns where their partner’s reactivity trigger their deepest wounds, and vice versa.
The problem is not you, the problem is 'The Pattern'. If you are feeling any of the following, you are in one of those patterns.
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Feel stuck in recurring, emotionally heavy arguments.
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Avoid bringing things up to prevent conflict
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Feel a growing distance from each other and want to reconnect.
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Feel criticised or blamed by one another.
I specialise in Relational Life Therapy (RLT) and I help couples break out of these patterns, get more of what they need from their relationships and rediscover their lost connection and intimacy.
About
My name is Tapas Dwivedi
My name is Tapas Dwivedi, and I am a Relationship Coach based in Berlin, Germany. I support couples and individuals in growing through their conflicts and developing stronger, happier relationships.
My journey as a Relationship Coach began after the end of an important relationship in my own life. As I ..
My Approach
Honest & Collaborative
Clients who work with me say that I am honest and collaborative in finding solutions for your relationship. My goal is to create a soft, judgement free space to find out what patterns are keeping you stuck.
Research-backed Conflict Analysis
Along with RLT, I draw insights from my training in Gottman's Method for couples therapy, which is based on extensive research with 3000 couples across 40 years and accurately predicts what makes relationships fail or succeed.
Multi Cultural Awareness
I was born in India, and now live in Berlin with my partner who is from Canada. I understand how differences in background and cultures can either divide or enrich a relationship. I help couples turn those differences into strengths.
What is Relational Life Therapy?
Relational Life Therapy (RLT) is a bold, transformative approach to couples work developed by renowned therapist and author Terry Real.
Unlike traditional therapies that focus solely on communication skills or insight, RLT dives deeper—challenging power imbalances, calling out toxic patterns with compassion, and helping partners reconnect with honesty and accountability.
It’s a direct yet deeply respectful method that blends psychological insight with direct coaching, making it especially effective for modern relationships.
Intimate relationships are not luxuries, but fundamental to human life.
Terry Real
Pflügerstraße 18
Berlin, Germany
Book a Session
Book a Couples or an Individual session with me by clicking below.
If you don't find a suitable slot or if you have any questions, you can email me at tapas@tapasdwivedi.com.